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Invictus by William Ernest Henley

In Books, Music on March 23, 2010 at 12:06 pm

This movie was good.  Will rate it 4 out of 5.  It didn’t realise inspire me but it definitely inspires to learn more about Nelson Mandela.  The book Long Walk to Freedom has always been on my reading list.  Until I watched this movie,  I decided to drive to the nearest bookstore to grab this book.  His motivation all lies in this poem.  I want to find my poem too…

Out of the night that covers me,
Black as the Pit from pole to pole,
I thank whatever gods may be
For my unconquerable soul.

In the fell clutch of circumstance
I have not winced nor cried aloud.
Under the bludgeonings of chance
My head is bloody, but unbowed.

Beyond this place of wrath and tears
Looms but the Horror of the shade,

And yet the menace of the years
Finds, and shall find, me unafraid.

It matters not how strait the gate,
How charged with punishments the scroll.
I am the master of my fate:
I am the captain of my soul.


Why should anyone be led by you?

In Books on March 22, 2010 at 4:40 pm

This I must say must be the best leadership book I have ever read.  It is truely stating the truth and the fact with examples of good leaders.  Each with different styles in different situations leading different organisations during different times.  In short, there is no manual for effective leadership.  You are a great leader because of who you are.  Of course, there are characteristics identified in this book.  Many identified between spectrums and matrix and you can be anywhere in that spectrum or matrix.  But yet you can be an effective leader.  It just teaches you to be yourself and to bring the leadership in you.

The real life stories on telling what works and what doesn’t strengthens their argument that they is no one leadership style.  But one thing for sure is about the balance of caring for the people and caring for the responsibility.  Many people fail in the process of it.  It helps you discover your style or at least be conscious of your actions and how it may affect people.  It helps you understand what people’s reactions and actions mean towards your leadership style.

Chapter by chapter it runs through the questions and the answer lies within you:

1) Which personal differences could form the basis of your leadership capability?

2) Which personal weaknesses fo you reveal to those you are leading?

3) Are you able to read different contexts?

4) Do you conform enough?

5) How well do you manage social distance?

6) Do you have a good sense of organisational time?

7) How well do you communicate?

I hope that I can implement these skills one day and get my answer to truly understand myself and my style.  This is a good read.  Intriguing questions to ask yourself and how you can relate to the top leaders in the world.  Enjoy.

Outliers

In Books on February 20, 2010 at 4:01 am
What is Outliers about? – an interview from his website which I thought was quite intriguing especially after I read the book.  Initially, I wanted to write a synopsis but this interview was kinda witty and it tells the story that I wanted to be told.

1. What is an outlier?

“Outlier” is a scientific term to describe things or phenomena that lie outside normal experience. In the summer, in Paris, we expect most days to be somewhere between warm and very hot. But imagine if you had a day in the middle of August where the temperature fell below freezing. That day would be outlier. And while we have a very good understanding of why summer days in Paris are warm or hot, we know a good deal less about why a summer day in Paris might be freezing cold. In this book I’m interested in people who are outliers—in men and women who, for one reason or another, are so accomplished and so extraordinary and so outside of ordinary experience that they are as puzzling to the rest of us as a cold day in August.

2. Why did you write Outliers?

I write books when I find myself returning again and again, in my mind, to the same themes. I wrote Tipping Point because I was fascinated by the sudden drop in crime in New York City—and that fascination grew to an interest in the whole idea of epidemics and epidemic processes. I wrote Blink because I began to get obsessed, in the same way, with the way that all of us seem to make up our minds about other people in an instant—without really doing any real thinking. In the case of Outliers, the book grew out a frustration I found myself having with the way we explain the careers of really successful people. You know how you hear someone say of Bill Gates or some rock star or some other outlier—”they’re really smart,” or “they’re really ambitious?’ Well, I know lots of people who are really smart and really ambitious, and they aren’t worth 60 billion dollars. It struck me that our understanding of success was really crude—and there was an opportunity to dig down and come up with a better set of explanations.

3. In what way are our explanations of success “crude?”

That’s a bit of a puzzle because we certainly don’t lack for interest in the subject. If you go to the bookstore, you can find a hundred success manuals, or biographies of famous people, or self-help books that promise to outline the six keys to great achievement. (Or is it seven?) So we should be pretty sophisticated on the topic. What I came to realize in writing Outliers, though, is that we’ve been far too focused on the individual—on describing the characteristics and habits and personality traits of those who get furthest ahead in the world. And that’s the problem, because in order to understand the outlier I think you have to look around them—at their culture and community and family and generation. We’ve been looking at tall trees, and I think we should have been looking at the forest.

4. Can you give some examples?

Sure. For example, one of the chapters looks at the fact that a surprising number of the most powerful and successful corporate lawyers in New York City have almost the exact same biography: they are Jewish men, born in the Bronx or Brooklyn in the mid-1930’s to immigrant parents who worked in the garment industry. Now, you can call that a coincidence. Or you can ask—as I do—what is about being Jewish and being part of the generation born in the Depression and having parents who worked in the garment business that might have something to do with turning someone into a really, really successful lawyer? And the answer is that you can learn a huge amount about why someone reaches the top of that profession by asking those questions.

5. Doesn’t that make it sound like success is something outside of an individual’s control?

I don’t mean to go that far. But I do think that we vastly underestimate the extent to which success happens because of things the individual has nothing to do with. Outliers opens, for example, by examining why a hugely disproportionate number of professional hockey and soccer players are born in January, February and March. I’m not going to spoil things for you by giving you the answer. But the point is that very best hockey players are people who are talented and work hard but who also benefit from the weird and largely unexamined and peculiar ways in which their world is organized. I actually have a lot of fun with birthdates in Outliers. Did you know that there’s a magic year to be born if you want to be a software entrepreneur? And another magic year to be born if you want to be really rich? In fact, one nine year stretch turns out to have produced more Outliers than any other period in history. It’s remarkable how many patterns you can find in the lives of successful people, when you look closely.

6. What’s the most surprising pattern you uncovered in the book?

It’s probably the chapter nearly the end of Outliers where I talk about plane crashes. How good a pilot is, it turns out, has a lot to do with where that pilot is from—that is, the culture he or she was raised in. I was actually stunned by how strong the connection is between culture and crashes, and it’s something that I would never have dreamed was true, in a million years.

7. Wait. Does this mean that there are some airlines that I should avoid?

Yes. Although, as I point out in Outliers, by acknowledging the role that culture plays in piloting, some of the most unsafe airlines have actually begun to clean up their act.

8. In Tipping Point, you had an entire chapter on suicide. In Blink, you ended the book with a long chapter on the Diallo shooting—and now plane crashes. Do you have a macabre side?

Yes! I’m a frustrated thriller writer! But seriously, there’s a good reason for that. I think that we learn more from extreme circumstances than anything else; disasters tell us something about the way we think and behave that we can’t learn from ordinary life. That’s the premise of Outliers. It’s those who lie outside ordinary experience who have the most to teach us.

9. How does this book compare to Blink and The Tipping Point?

It’s different, in the sense that it’s much more focused on people and their stories. The subtitle—”The Story of Success”—is supposed to signal that. A lot of the book is an attempt to describe the lives of successful people, but to tell their stories in a different way than we’re used to. I have a chapter that deals, in part, with explaining the extraordinary success of Bill Gates. But I’m not interested in anything that happened to him past the age of about 17. Or I have a chapter explaining why Asian schoolchildren are so good at math. But it’s focused almost entirely on what the grandparents and great-grandparents and great-great grandparents of those schoolchildren did for a living. You’ll meet more people in Outliers than in my previous two books.

10. What was your most memorable experience in researching Outliers?

There were so many! I’ll never forget the time I spent with Chris Langan, who might be the smartest man in the world. I’ve never been able to feel someone’s intellect before, the way I could with him. It was an intimidating experience, but also profoundly heartbreaking—as I hope becomes apparent in “The Trouble with Geniuses” chapter. I also went to south China and hung out in rice paddies, and went to this weird little town in eastern Pennsylvania where no one ever has a heart attack, and deciphered aircraft “black box” recorders with crash investigators. I should warn all potential readers that once you get interested in the world of plane crashes, it becomes very hard to tear yourself away. I’m still obsessed.

11. What do you want people to take away from Outliers?

I think this is the way in which Outliers is a lot like Blink and Tipping Point. They are all attempts to make us think about the world a little differently. The hope with Tipping Point was it would help the reader understand that real change was possible. With Blink, I wanted to get people to take the enormous power of their intuition seriously. My wish with Outliers is that it makes us understand how much of a group project success is. When outliers become outliers it is not just because of their own efforts. It’s because of the contributions of lots of different people and lots of different circumstances— and that means that we, as a society, have more control about who succeeds—and how many of us succeed—than we think. That’s an amazingly hopeful and uplifting idea.

12. I noticed that the book is dedicated to “Daisy.” Who is she?

Daisy is my grandmother. She was a remarkable woman, who was responsible for my mother’s success—for the fact that my mother was able to get out of the little rural village in Jamaica where she grew up, get a University education in England and ultimately meet and marry my father. The last chapter of Outliers is an attempt to understand how Daisy was able to make that happen—using all the lessons learned over the course of the book. I’ve never written something quite this personal before. I hope readers find her story as moving as I did.

Last Chance Saloon by Marian Keyes

In Books on September 10, 2009 at 4:37 pm

Keyes_02_100It seems like I haven’t written a book review for a while now.  So I decide to put on a chick lit.. one of my favourite ones.  Apparently, someone said that I read too much “geeky” books which makes me an overanalytical, overthinking girl.  Oh well, perhaps this will tone down my collections.  I read this book when back when I was in high school.  It was the first book by Marian Keyes that I read and I have had all her books ever since.. but this remains her best.

Typically, this is a book about 3 women and their battle with relationships.  All sorts of woman and the irony of the relationships they are in.  Would you take whatever you can get when you don’t have anyone? And the other one who doesn’t really care but have a gorgeous, out-of-this-world, your prince charming in your fairy tales (with big bucks and big cars). Or someone just struggling with life and defined relationship as something more – not just between a girl and a boy but with herself, her friends and the world.

The linchpin of the story is someone being diagnosed with a life threatening illness, and using it as an excuse to force their friends to make changes in their lives so that they can be happy before the aforementioned sick person pops off this mortal coil.  Cues a lot of people saying that they really are very happy just the way they are, thank you very much.

I think this book really represents a woman at a different point in time of her life as you can somehow relate to each of the characters.  Or perhaps I am the one with the multiple personality disorder thinking that she’s living a 3-persons life.  But for sure it’s a goof

Objectivism

In Books on July 24, 2009 at 11:48 am

I’ve never heard about this author – Ayn Rand – until it was suggested by Tun M’s PA. 

She is a Russian-born American writer and one of her most successful book which turned into a movie is Fountainhead.  Her book is  mostly centred to a philosophy called “Objectivism” because it is based on the premise that reality is an objective absolute. One must perceive and understand reality to survive. One’s highest value should be one’s ability to reason. This also manifested in the way Rand viewed her own life, not through feelings but through her interest in ideas and her thinking.

I think it is mainly influenced by her environment and the time she was brought into this world.  She witnessed the Russian Revolution and the social upheaval, during which his father found work only in a Soviet store.  Hence, why I feel that her emotional side is “damaged”.

Anyway, Fountainhead at the first instance your mind would say – THICK (> 700 pages!).  The book is about three people: a Modern Architect who loves his work more than money or himself, his friend who has not the necessary talent but, at first,knows how to give public what they want; and a newspaper columnist who perhaps understands everything that is going on around, but uses his knowledge as he wishes, which is not necessarily the best decision. The Fountainhead argues that the worst kind of people is the “second-handers”, people who are ruling and supporting our society, sacrificing their inner self-respect for the sake of their outer ego. Overall, this work is terrific, it can be read both as philosophically challenging novel and serious but entertaining book. And it is great in both.books  It even make me want to see if “Howard Roak” exists in this modern world.

Louise de Bernieres – A Partisan’s Daughter

In Books on July 18, 2009 at 6:18 pm

PDMy latest book that I read – my LRT books.  I have 2 type of books – one for serious readings at home before I sleep and the other while I’m ‘on-the-go’.  This explains the need for me to always carry a big handbag to fit all my neccessities that cover entertainment, music, looks and diary.

Anyway, this book is hilarious and brilliantly funny but made me cried in the end.  A story about an unlikely love that blooms from 2 most oddly couple met by chance.  The way the book was written is for you to be in the mind of both.  Throughout the book, they were playing a game with each other.  One keeps thinking about what the other person might think and try to hide from what we truly feel.  This book manage to bring all that out for us to experience.  Also, the sarcasm that were thrown to each other were brilliant.  Good fun to read.

The End of Mr. Y by Scarlett Thomas

In Books on July 17, 2008 at 9:25 pm

..Just pretend for a minute that there is something called a curse and it exists and it is a thing. Where does it come from? That’s what we need to ask.’

‘Do we?’

‘Yes. Is it something magical, or is it a prophecy that comes true because you make it come true? Or is it even just nothing at all, just a way of explaining bad things that happen to us that are actually random. I may ask: my do I have an infestation of mice? Did someone curse me? Or did I just leave too much food out one day to tempt them? Or is life just as simple as there are mice?

……’What if it isn’t people who make curses?’ I say.

….’Ha,’ says Wolf. ‘ You think curses are made by gods.’

….’No, of course not. It’s just a hypothetical question. Can something be created in language independently of the people who use the language? Can language become a self-replicating system or….’

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Never have I thought to ‘blame’ the language – curses to me are always related to beliefs, culture or even environment. Perhaps the fact that humans need to create an illusion to blanket their unfortunate situations or mishaps. When are we cursed? or is it fate? These are the usual arguments .. not the mere existence of language — the accidental creation of a word